So I've been told that "my actions define who I am" which is true but according to them my actions make me a "slut". But let me just say... who, why, when and how I am with someone is none of your business. I will not be judged by you or society. I will wear and do whatever I want as long as I live and breathe. Now I have already quoted multiple Unknown people in here but I'm just gonna quote a shortened version of what Jessica Valenti, a pretty well known feminist who I really don't know much about has said that kinda helps me get my point across. "We live in a culture with a deeply entrenched sexual double standard: the mindset that boys will be boys, and girls will be sluts. "Slut" is how we vilify women for their right to say "yes". I mean whats the worst thing you can call a women? "Slut, whore, bitch, cunt, skank?". Ok now what are the worst things you can call a guy? "Fag, girl, bitch, pussy". Notice anything? The worst this you can call a girl is a girl. The worst thing you can call a guy is a girl. Being a women is the ultimate insult. Now tell me that's not royally fucked up." If that doesn't say something to you idk what will. You can always tell who the strong women are. They are the ones you see building each other up instead of tearing each other down. "You have to stop calling each other sluts and whores. It just makes it ok for guys to call you sluts and whores."and So all I'm trying to saying is no more slut shaming! Big or small, short or tall, none of us are beautiful if we tear others down to build ourselves up.-idk half of the people and other things I've quoted but I'm not going to take credit for it lol so there are multiple unknown sources, meangirls and of course Jessica Valenti. #NotASlut#FreeToBeMe
PURE AND SACRED
Now, should we treat women as independent agents, responsible for themselves? Of course. But being responsible has nothing to do with being raped. Women don’t get raped because they were drinking or took drugs. Women do not get raped because they weren’t careful enough. Women get raped because someone raped them.✔🤔🙄 #Sinfulheartblames.